A few pointers to keep baby, new parents happy

Even though being a parent is the most important job in the world, there’s little training offered for moms-and-dads-to-be.

It’s baptism under fire for new parents, so here’s some advice to take the edge off.

• Don’t overspend on baby equipment. You don’t have to push a $700 Bugaboo stroller just because Angelina Jolie or Katie Holmes did. The cheaper strollers are just as durable, chic and federal law requires them to meet the same safety standards.
• Don’t buy all new clothes. The idea that babies could get allergies from used clothes is a myth because once an article of clothing is washed in hot water it is free of any germs.
• Go outside. Overcome your anxiety about strangers and worries about the baby getting sick or crying in public. Fresh air is good for you and the baby.
• Don’t force a feeding schedule. Newborns have a tiny stomach - usually the size of a walnut - and to set a high expectation and demand a schedule for somebody that size does not really help.
• Make time for romance. Newborns require attention and nurturing as does your relationship with your significant other. Find a trusted baby sitter and take some time for just the two of you. And, try not to talk about the baby during your time.

These are only a few mistakes that many new parents make.

The list could be longer but the learning is constant.

In the end, though, mistakes happen and lessons are learned.

Alpha M. Sanford, Quincy